Feng Shui Questions?

[Stephanie]

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[Stephanie]

Use the bagua on your plot of land, then your home, and THEN on individual rooms. The bigger the area, the bigger bang for your buck. Most likely there are larger challenges throughout the home, and working on just one room rarely gets the effects you desire.

Can you tell me a bit more about your relationship? Is it good? Passionate? Loving? And are you sleeping separately due to snoring, or sleep issues? Or because you feel distanced in your connection? It will help to know more...

Love,

Stephanie

[Marie]

Oh boy! The land that I have is about four acres, then my house is about eighty feet by 28 feet that included the garage. That garage is located on the West area. Wow! big focus and then small focus and then smaller focus . Wow! Can you tell me why the the bigger the area , the bigger bang for my buck? That is definitely brand new idea to me but I'm happy to learn and undertand better.
My relationship is not good anymore. Love is gone. Sleep separate due to restless sleep ( he have back problem {two times surgeries} with toss and turn), a lot of disagreements, and plan to divorce due to financial problem and family problem with blaming pointing problem. That why I sleep in my own room.
I am starting to go back to school this fall to study a new skill as computer aided drafter. We might stay here as long as I finish school then I might live on my own then. I have no income and I have my website- to see if it will work for me to help me earn some income.
Another thing, my two grandkids are in my house 99 percent of the time and before they used to sleep in my room which is in the northeast corner. Right now, they sleep in the southeast corner of the house.

I have much to learn and am happy to learn more...

Love,
Marie

[Marie]

Hi Stephanie,

On second thought, your quote was, "Use the bagua on your plot of land", I wonder , what about the door? How do I find the door on the land property? driveway as doorway?? Please let me know and Thanks!!!

Another thing, How do I deal with odd shape the land property as rectangular shape, long one goes north-south direction, sort ones run on East-West direction and the size about 170 by 2000.? Should I stretch the floor plan into rectangular shape with nine in it????

Marie

[Marie]

Here is the accurate ones, Odd shape is Rectangular shape, the long ones goes north-south direction and the size is 168 by 1198. The first third north part- we use alot. The bottom 2/3 south part of the land is full of woods/never use it. Our house is located in the northern part in the middle ones. Still should I stretch the floor plan?

Another thing about the door method on the land plot, can the driveway be using as the door method or not otherwise you can explain how to use door method on the land plot?
Thank so much,
Carole

[Stephanie]

First always look at where the bagua falls over your entire home. When you scale it down into individual rooms or over desks, etc. I find the results to be watered down.

What is the reason for you and your husband to sleep in separate rooms? More info here would be helpful to address your question. How is your marriage in general? How fulfilling is it for you? What would you like to transform about it? What is your ideal romantic scenario????....

What else in your life would you like to see change?

Love,

Stephanie

[Stephanie]

It's up to you as to how you arrange the bagua. I don't use the compass method. I think it's tough for most westerner's to connect with this practice for the most part, and get much better results aligning the bagua with the front door instead. Fame is the back center of the home, Love is the far back right, Wealth is the far back left, etc.

I will be releasing a document explaining this more soon. So stay tuned! Thanks for the question... it's a good one, and one I'm asked a LOT!

XOXO

Stephanie

[Marie]

Hello Stephanie,

Okay! While I'm inside the front door looking at the door it face toward the North. when I enter the door -it should be career area or zone right?
Love,
Marie

[Marie]

Sorry to add to my reply earlier, I cannot wait for your plan to release a document that you plan to explain more soon and yes! I will stay tuned for that . LOL! Thanks so much!

Thanks,
Marie

[icy]

Every thing i earn it is going in traffic tickets.I wonder why?
no friends, only jealous people around me.
My front door and behind door make a corridor like thing.High ceiling with big windows in SW wall, behind door on SW wall. kitchen in NW.
Not able to start a buisness what i want to do after so many attempts. Fights with husband.I am lost

[Stephanie]

Yes, it sounds like a lot is going on in your life.... It happens to the best of us, at one time or another. I know from first-hand experience!

Without seeing your home, it's really tough to comment on anything feng shui related. What I do believe though, is that if we shift either our home, our thinking, or our physical body/health, our life can transform. So perhaps you want to look into coaching, or join a group to begin to make more friends. I LOVE "The Work of Byron Katie" and highly suggest that you check out her website: www.thework.com for more info. That can help shift your beliefs that may keep drawing situations that are less-than-desirable into your life. The book "Ask and It Is Given" is also an amazing resource for shifting your thinking and manifesting positive things into your life. For now, I would pursue both of these options, and check back with us!

Sending lots of love,

Stephanie

[Marie]

After I went through information about Feng Shui and now I am even more confuse. For example, what is the difference between BAGUA (Eight directions) and Nine zones???

[Stephanie]

If you're referring to the "feng shui floor plan" that I mention on the show, it's the same as the Bagua map. With the bagua, yes there are 8 different directions, but there's also the middle. So that means 9 areas total. These are the same as the 9 areas I refer to in the show. Different practitioners use the bagua differently. Some arrange the bagua directionally, using N-S-E-W, and others arrange it according to your front door.... I use the latter method.

I explain this all in my book. Unfortunately right when I was about to launch it, I was told by a literary agent to hold on releasing it so we could pursue getting it officially published. I will very likely be releasing just the portion on the bagua as a download soon, so stay tuned. It walks you through all of it....

Hope that helps a bit!

Love,

Stephanie